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tajindersingh
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Topic: jokes on sardarsPosted: 17 March 2005 at 3:13am |
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waheguru ji ka khalsa,waheguru ji ki fateh! aaj jo jokes sardara ute chalde ne oono kiwen rokya jaye ? kai sardar veer we usno bade maje le ke padde hun ki legal action le sakde a eho ji a sites te ? |
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Khoji
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Posted: 17 March 2005 at 3:36am |
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Tajinder veerji, welcome to the LT family. I hope you will have wonderful learning experience here. Thanks for bringing up Sardar jokes issue for discussion. Especially the jokes in the Indian movies. Sat Sari Akal ji Warm regards khoji
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Jujhar
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Posted: 17 March 2005 at 4:21am |
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Gur fateh and Welcome to the LT family Tejinder Singh ji....this is really a very sensitive issue and many organizations are doing efforts to stop such mischieves....I think we shld not do it at our own level also, if we participate in such jokes te asi eh cheez nu bharava dende haan ji....I think keval sikhan te hi nahi, kise vi dharam te jokes ban hone chahide han, No one has a right to hurt anyones feelings....hope to hear from you regularly tejinder singh ji.... Regards |
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Khoji
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Posted: 19 March 2005 at 7:35pm |
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**Selina**
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Posted: 20 March 2005 at 3:10pm |
Khoji ji, i share your opinion, if everyone walked a mile in other people's shoes they would stop making jokes about what they call "different" people, its what makes someone different that makes them unique. Wether people show it or not, a joke about a group of people or even blonde jokes, hurts. No one has the right to make jokes on anyone, so its best to ignore these jokes, if they notice you dont care about it, even if it hurts, they stop cause it wont be that interesting anymore. Some people just want to hurt other peoples feelings, if they dont get the impact they want, it soon will be over...
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Jujhar
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Posted: 21 March 2005 at 1:14am |
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Rightly said sister.... Regards |
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Tejbir
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Posted: 26 March 2005 at 10:01am |
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an angle, different totally from above discussed, which i used to implement n even thing gr8ly, there was really hard time 4 me to tackle such things initially, but later on things were coooooollllll, i thik why people mk more jokes on sardars becoz of their CAREFREE HABIT; or we can say THEY DONT MIND, i dont mean that they done have mind at all, this is just a suggestion which i used 2 do n one thing more i would like 2 addd here, is that, start caring 4 others, sharing with others, work 4 them as if u r real friend of them, n even always be ready 2 asist others in any manner u can do.... these r the few things which i used to work on n i think these habits of mine actually improved my environment.... atleast the other people in my circle become sensible, respecting each other..... I tried these things at my school; college; even in my college days; not onlt tht in my office, during the traning session nd on the job as well, where i worked for 5 months. if u like this suggestion....u r most welcome to go with it......even u r welcome to give suggestions ...... i may be wrong as well..... pls respond.....it would really be a gr8 thing for me.... and if nothing stucks/suits ur mind then just see at the signature.......i think that will really help u.....all the best dear..... |
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**Selina**
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Posted: 27 March 2005 at 3:52am |
I agree with your view Tejbir ji but do you really think that when told a joke about Sardars they dont mind? I think they mind, cause whatever negative things people say about you, it hurts...and worst is it doesn't stop. Sikhs are humble people, thats why they dont show their emotion so openly, hurt or angry, but sitting in silence afterwards, i am sure, the joke is still crossing their minds. If the ones who tell jokes think about how the other person feels, they at that point stopped joking. Its true "dont mind" something or "dont having a mind" are two different things and yes the best remedy is to ignore and keep on doing the good jobs and if they notice you seem not to care, they will eventually stop. Wish everyone opend their eyes and learned to know the person, but only by wishing everything still stays the same... And your signature shows everything we need to know ji
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Tejbir
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Posted: 28 March 2005 at 7:59am |
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simply gr8 reply selina g, i m glad for the points u raised, u r absolutely right tht most of the poeple do mind abt d jokes raised on especially sardars. but what i believe is LIFE IS FOR OTHERS, TO SHARE, TO SACRIFICE ONESELF FOR OTHER, TO ASSIST OTHER IN WHAT EVER WAY U POSSIBLY CAN.... this all is what I think....It is simply possible that this vupoint didnt suit other at all.....the may oppose is in their way as well................But these all virtues I had learned from GURMAT. If u think i m wrong or distracted then its a request pls suggest me..... infact the italiced words r the lines of a song i was learning from my music teacher way back......it means always smile in the Life, curb the differences and be one from heart......I think silpmy gr8 message..... |
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Posted: 28 March 2005 at 5:05pm |
You mean to say if making fun of Sardars bring happiness to others it is OK for them to make fun of Sikhs. Are you willing to scarify your self-esteem and get pain in your heart but still have a smile on your face for their happiness? It might be OK in the theory but to practice it will be very hard. Well! as I understand, most of the Sikh’s do tolerates it.
Good thoughts and Gurmat thinking.
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**Selina**
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Posted: 29 March 2005 at 10:14am |
I agree what you said Khoji ji, in theory it works but not always in practise, you cant keep ignoring such remarks or jokes of people without being hurt deeply. My opinion is that no one has the right to lower a person, no matter what race or religion he/she joins. We all are God's creatures and we have the same rights as everyone else has..
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Posted: 31 March 2005 at 1:11am |
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Making jokes on other is a kind of ego.....Ego cames when you think you are superior and other is inferior........but my love and respectful guru sahib said ek pita ekkas ke hum barak.....when we are one under one god then what is a sense to look down on others or hurt others and make the others enjoy..... If you can't see God in all you can't see God at all!!!!!!!!! Shower love and grown the love seed and see the fruit of love ! |
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**Selina**
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Posted: 01 April 2005 at 5:25am |
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Tejbir
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Posted: 03 April 2005 at 7:59am |
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Selina Ji wrote: if everyone puts themself in the other persons shoe, this would never happen. infact where is the topic starter ie Tajinder Ji..... pls Tajinder ji do contribute in this topic infact its really good, though, i dont know where it ll be heading. tejinder ji pls reply......
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tajindersingh
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Posted: 08 April 2005 at 7:14am |
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Posted: 09 April 2005 at 2:49am |
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Gur fateh and welcome back veerjeo...thanx for ur kind words, hope u have got answer to ur question... Regards |
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Posted: 11 April 2005 at 4:29am |
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Dear freinds Please note this is not the situation of our community if u watch the Hindi cinema carefully u will notice the same thing happening with every community in minority status ( parsi , sindhi, muslim etc.) so please ignore it & don't let ur self esteem come down we can only ignore. Thanking u Harmeet singh
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Posted: 11 April 2005 at 7:47am |
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WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA WAHEGURU JI KI FATHEH! BEING A SIKH I TOO HAVE TO FACE SUCH SITUATIONS. I FEEL THE ROOT CAUSE OF THIS PROBLEM LIES IN THE JEALOUSY AND FEAR AMONG THE MAJORITY COMMUNITY WHO IS TEASING.IT IS A MATTER OF GREAT PRIDE TO HAVE BORN IN SIKH COMMUNITY. IT HAS THE MOST SCIENTIFIC, PRUDENT, LOGICAL, AND SIMPLE PRINCIPLES BASED ON EQUALITY. IT BREAKS ALL THE BARRIERS OF SOCIAL INJUSTICES, WHICH IS DONE DUE TO CASTES, CREEDS, SEXS, OR ON ANY OTHER BASIS. IT GAVE THREAT TO THE SECT WHO WAS DOING THE SOCIAL EXPLOITATION IN THE THEN EXISTING RELIGIONS WHEN SIKHISM WAS BORN. THE PEOPLE WITH VESTED INTERESTS TWIST THE TEACHING OF THE RELIGIONS FOR THEIR PERSONAL ENDS, SO WAS HAPPENING IN HUMOUR, JOKES CAN BE GOOD IF THESE ARE BILATERAL AND RECIPROCAL. IF I TELL ONE ABOUT YOU OR YOUR COMMUNITY, I SHOULD BE READY TO HEAR IN RETURN. BUT GENERALLY IT IS NOT THE CASE. THE PROBLEM, IN MY OPINION, STRATS FROM THE FACT THAT WE DO NOT KNOW SIKHISM WELL OURSELVES, LEAVE THINKING OF SPREADING AND EDUCATING IT TO OTHERS. A GOOD SIKH CAN ONLY BE THE BEST SYMBOL OF THE RELIGION. TODAY WE FIND THAT LIQOR AND NON-VEG HAS BECOME PART OF OUR IDENTITY. WE OURSELVES DO NOT KNOW SIKHISM WELL. WE DO NOT KNOW WHY WE SHOULD BE PROUD TO BE SIKHS. COMING TO THE ISSUE, I FEEL THAT THE ISSUE IS VERY DELICATE. WE MUST HANDLE THE SITUATION DEPENDING ON THE CIRCUSTANCES. WHILE WE HAVE TO PROTECT OUR SELF RESPECT, WE HAVE TO LIVE IN THIS SOCIETY, SO WE SHOULD HANDLE DIPLOMATICALLY. AT TIMES ONE CAN TELL, ‘I DO NOT LIKE SUCH JOKES’ OR BY TELLING “OK! I HAVE ONE FOR YOU TOO.” AND TELL ONE JOKE ABOUT HIS RELIGION, THUS, RESPONDING WITH SAME COIN. IN THIS CONTEXT I FEEL, WE MUST ALSO MAKE SUCH JOKES ABOUT THEM, SPREAD AMONG OURSELVES AND KEEP READY IN OUR KITTY. I FEEL THE CONCEPT OF TOO MUCH TOLERANCE IS NOT AS PER SIKHISM. WHILE VOILENCE MAY NOT BE OUR WAY, THE ROOT OF CONVERSION OF “SINGH” FROM “SIKH” LIES IN DEFYING THE INJUSTICE. “BHAY KAHOO KO DET NEH, NEH BHAY MANAT AAN” IF FIRST OF ALL, WE OURSELVES KNOW SIKHISM AND THEN IF THE TEACHINGS OF SIKHISM ARE WELL PREACHED AND SPREAD, IT IS BOUND TO IMPRESS ANYONE, WHO IS NOT BIASED, IS OPEN TO HEAR, AND IS GOOD AT HEART, REST, OTHERSIWE ALSO, DO NOT DESERVE GENTLEMAN’S TREATMENT. WE MUST PROVE THAT WE ARE BETTER. WE MUST CONVEY THAT OUR TOLERANCE IS DUE TO OUR GOODNESS AND SHOULD NOT BE TAKEN OTHERWISE. BUT FIRST OF ALL LETS BE GOOD SIKHS, BY KNOWING SIKHISM OURSLVES FIRST. DSKOHLI_DDN@YAHOO.COM |
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Posted: 25 April 2005 at 10:07am |
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hello every body mein na saareiyan they replies and posts read kitey ney and i personally feel that we as a community are very friendly and out going and have very strong personality .... sardarniyaan sohni ! and the sardars stand out with the turban saadi kaum aisi hey i think we should not take this in bad spirit but very good spirit as we are the chosen ones ..............the chosen ones are those that either suffer like christ (or are very humourous lke khushwant singh )or are victourious like the sikhs we r reponsible for many a smile in this world and are blessed so be proud and those in this world who can laugh at themselves can over come mountains and can die smiling !!!!!! Jo boley so nehal ! sat sri akal |
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**Selina**
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Posted: 25 April 2005 at 11:20am |
Sheebbaa ji, well explained, you hit the nail on the head. High trees catch a lot of wind they say......so true....
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