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    Posted: 02 September 2003 at 1:02pm
any teenagers facing any kind of problem can post in here
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I think you are teenager yourself subreet87. Let us start this thread by your views only on teenage problems facing the Sikhs of today in India and Abroad.
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Gr8 idea subu veer
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  Quote subreet87 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 17 September 2003 at 6:25pm

onne quick question

i know that people in india (sikh) are teased as tere barah baj gai 12 o clock joke, wat is ur reaction on this and i want to know that what people reply to this

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  Quote IDEAL Singh Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 17 September 2003 at 10:37pm
No need to reply to such derogatory remarks... you would reply and s/he would put another prank... Dont get into arguement over such petty matterz. He said what was his samaj (level of thinking), now if we reply to such questions then that meanz we are taking our samaj to the level of that personz samaj. So if reply to such questions then we are equally party to such useless arguements...

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Yeh the more u resist, the more it persists....
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I read this on some other forum, i think its sometimes better to make others realise their mistake in a gentle manner...i think this wud help...

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I was standing at Dadar Station when my attention went towards a Sikh youth standing nearby to me wearing a Black turban having a long beard and wearing a Kirpan over his shirt looking similar to a Terrorist. After a while one Local train arrived, which was totally packed. The Sikh youth tried to alight the train but failed to do so. Just then a
voice was heard from back coach 'Sardarji Barah Baj gaye'

Sikh youth looked over that voice maker who was young mischievous type of person and instead of showing any anger made a smile towards him. This smile made was so enigmatic that it seemed some type of truth lies behind it. Not able to resist my temptation I walked towards him and asked why did he smiled at that person who teased him. The Sikh
replied ? he was not teasing me but was asking for my Help?. I was surprised with these words and he told me that there was a big history behind that which one should know. I was eager to know the History and the Sikh youth narrated??

During 17th Century when Hindustan was ruled by Mughals all the people were humiliated and were treated like animal. Mughals treated the Hindu women as there own property and were forcing all Hindus to accept the Islam and even used to kill the people if they were refusing to accept. That time our Ninth Guru Sri Guru Teg Bhadarji who came forward, in request of some Kashmir Pandit, to fight against all these cruel activities. Guruji told Mughal emperor if he could succeed in converting him to Islam all the Hindus would accept the same but if he failed, he should stop all those activities . Mughal Emperor happily agreed to that but even after lots of Torture to Guruji and his fellow members he failed to convert him to Islam and Guruji along with his other four fellow members who were also
tortured for the same sacrificed their lives in Chandni Chowk since Mughals were unable to convert them to Islam they were assassinated thus Guruji sacrificed his life for Protection of Hindu religion (can anybody lay his life that too for protection of some other religion. This is the reason he is still remembered has Hind Ki Chaddar . For sake of whom (he had sacrificed his life, none of the them came forward to lift his body with a fear that they would also be assassinated .

Seeing this incident our 10th Guruji, Sri Guru Gobind Singhiji (Son of Guru Teg Bahadarji made a resolution that he would make such a human who would not be able to hide himself and could be easily located in thousands, THE SIKH.

At start Sikhs were very less in numbers even though they were fighting against the cruel Mughals emperors. At that time Nadir Shah raided Delhi in year 1739 BC and looted Hindustan and was carrying lot of Hindustan Treasures and nearly 2200 Hindu women along with him. The news spread like a fire and was heard by Sardar Jassa Singh who was the
Commander of Sikh army that time . He decided to attack Nadir Shah's Khafila on the same midnight. He did so and rescued all the Hindu women and were safely sent to their homes. It didn't happened only once but thereafter whenever any Abdaalis or Iranis had looted Hindustan and were trying to carry out treasures and Hindu women along with them for selling them in Abdal markets, the Sikh army (quite few in numbers but were bravehearted attacked them in the midnight (12 O?clock and rescued women. After that time when there occurred a similar incidence people started to contact Sikh army for their Help and Sikh used to attacked the raider's at the Midnight( 12 O'clock. It continued and became a fame that at midnight (nearly at 12 O'clock it is very difficult to fight against Sikhs as the
Sikhs get some Extra Power to save Religion, Nation and Humanity. Nobody can fight and win against them at midnight, this continues till now. Nowadays these smart people and some Sikh enemies who are afraid of Sikhs, have spread these words that at 12 O'clock Sikh goes out of sense.

This historic fact was the reason which made me smile over that person as I thought that his Mother or Sister would be in trouble and wants my help which he was unable to provide and may be he was reminding me by saying off 'Sardarji Barah Baj Gaye'

As he was narrating the incident I was feeling ashamed of myself as I used to click and enjoy the jokes on Sikhs and to make fun of them. But now I have got the truth that these Sikhs are born for others and they are real patriotic to Humanity and Religion. What we
all are doing to these great Saints and Soldiers ???? instead of Thanking them we all are making fun. Earlier the Sikh youth appeared as a Terrorist but now I could see the reflection of real Patriotic person in him.

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  Quote Jujhar Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 18 September 2003 at 3:01am

Simply Gr8....Kya darya dil banda hoyega yaar oh manykh jo ina positive sochda hai ji....

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Yes Jujhar....tats wat realisation is....that person really looked wihin himself...searched himself for errors. yes, simply gr8.
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Really great Sukhbir ,

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  Quote subreet87 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 29 December 2003 at 3:14am

thanks for this. it really adds to my knowledge.

people should be grateful to the sikhs at that time who returned all the women to their houses. but thay are making fun of a favour done to them  

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i know there are more teenagers here. and i know we all have problems so if anyone would like to share they are welcome
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  Quote amrit Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 28 January 2004 at 4:13am

Man

 

Where r u?does 12 baje hurts any budy...when it comes to pranking we r the king .I dont remember any budy embarassing me with 12 baje.. we r sikhs we are the only community in this world who can laugh at itself and thats why we are universally accepted.

 

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  Quote amrit Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 28 January 2004 at 4:16am

Dear brother and sisters

my only concern is that we should not trim our hair and beard and motivate other sikhs by doing so...

Kes is the most precious tresure we have.

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Yes I agree with u Amrit ji and also We should not let those people in Gurudwaras , who trim their hairs . Let them pray outside our holy places .

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Rajpal jee i think there is some misconception here about very basic Gurmat fundamental, SGGS or even rehat maryada does not teach us differences between humanbeings, rather main Gurmat concept is (fareedaa khaalak khalak meh khalak vasai rab maahi.Fareed, the Creator is in the Creation, and the Creation abides in God.mandaa kis no aakhee-ai jaaN tis bin ko-ee naahi. ||75||Whom can we call bad? There is none without Him. ||75||p-1381).
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  Quote Jujhar Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 16 February 2004 at 12:02am

Originally posted by bhupendrarajpal

Let them pray outside our holy places .
Rajpal .

Rajpal veerji...i have few questions about it...

Is it justified to do this???

Is gurmat a monopoly of only people who have dari & Pag only...bhaven una di living bilkul gurmat ton ulat hoye...te is taran te jere manukh rati sharab pinde han te swere 4 waje gurudware chale jande han but una de kes kate nahi honde uhna nu kiven justify karoge ji???

Ki eh rabi gun hai ki asi kise nu far ke usnu zabardasti kise nu kujh karan nu kahiye????---Rabji don't catch us anywhere...

please make these points clear ji...

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  Quote sukss Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 16 February 2004 at 12:27am

Dear Rajpal Ji,

Sikhism does'nt teach to descriminate. It infact embraces everyone...be it trimmer, drinker, hindu, muslim, jainee, bodhee or anyone else....it only teaches to love everyone...coz if we say that God exists in everyone then how come we hate someone...even if a person whos habits are not gud...it doesnot either suggests that only we are gud and others are worthless creatures...yes we surly can try to change one's thinking with love and true knowledge...and not forcibly....had this been the case, the gurus wud nt have raised voice against mughals...it was only done coz mughals were trying to do something foricbly and in a brutal manner...Gurunanak ji had his two diciples Bala(Hindu) and Mardana(Muslim)....so its clear that if the founder of sikhism doesnt descriminate...we too sud nt.

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Aval allah noor upaya, kudrat kae sabb bandae ||
Ek noor tae sabb jag upjaeya, Kon Bhale ko mandae ||

 

"Bura Bhala kaho kisno kahiye, Sagle ji tumhare"

Now if rabji don't discriminates and guru sahib vi sanu ehi vichar dende han te why should we hate or discrminate with anyone???

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  Quote Tejbir Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 23 February 2004 at 10:03am

vry simple to understand

raab ji gives oxygen to every manukh; rain if happens then to all houses equally either a rich or poor; gurmukhor manmukh; gora or kala.

surely no discrimination at all from this nature which is nothing but "THE LAWS OF NATURE IS THE WILL OF GOD".

then who we r to do such discrimination.

We can be Happy or WE can be Right!!!

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